Relationship Identity Coach
the Love You Want Starts With You
Relationships have a way of revealing the parts of ourselves we’ve forgotten, hidden, or never learned to trust. While discovering those parts can feel uncomfortable, it can also become the beginning of building the kind of love that feels safe, secure, and lasting.
Here you’ll find practical relationship guidance and gentle encouragement I once needed myself-to quiet relationship anxiety, build confidence, and learn how to love without losing who I am. Whether you’re dating or strengthening your relationship, you’re welcome here.
Every Sunday morning, I’ll meet you with coffee, thoughtful reflections, practical relationship guidance, and gentle reminders to come home to yourself.
Find me on:
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If you've ever felt like...
You carry the emotional load of the relationship, initiating all the hard and vulnerable conversations
You compensate for your partner's lack of effort by working twice as hard to maintain it
You hold back or play small to protect your partner's ego or comfort
You have lost yourself to hold the relationship together and you resent your partner
The love you want is possible… but something does need to shift.
My Philosophy
The love you want—it starts with you.
When you become more aware of your patterns, communication style, and emotional responses, everything begins to shift.
Because when you change your patterns, you change the way you love, communicate, and connect.
How We Work Together
Awareness
We identify patterns, emotional triggers, and relationship cycles.
Accountability
You learn to shift what you tolerate, accept, and participate in.
Alignment
You begin making different choices that align with your vision for love.
About
Hey, I'm Candice Monita.
I’m a nurse turned Relationship Identity Coach.
Truthfully, I didn’t set out to become a coach. The path found me.
After loss, healing, and learning to love myself first, I became the woman who could attract and hold healthy love. Now I help women do the same.
Whether you’re dating with intention or trying to reconnect with the person you already love, I’m here to help you get clear, set boundaries, and stop losing yourself in the process.
Work With Me
1:1 Relationship Clarity Session
20 Minutes
Complimentary
For women who are ready to make a meaningful change in the way they show up in love.
We’ll identify the relationship patterns that may be keeping you stuck, clarify what you want to change, and explore whether my Love Without Losing Yourself private coaching experience is the right support for you.
Grow With Me Beyond Coaching
Tik Tok
Short, real, unfiltered insights on relationships, self-worth, and emotional patterns.
Substack
Deeper breakdowns, reflections, and written guidance to help you understand yourself and your relationships.
real change doesn't begin with your partner.
It Begins With the relationship you have with yourself.
Take The First Step
Ready to do this
differently?
If you’re ready to create a healthier, more connected relationship with yourself and your partner, let’s begin.